Saturday, August 14, 2021

Selective Listening ...

Over the course of my career, I have discovered a phenomenon thru email I would have never imagined.  I have written a great many notes, with a certain intent, as far as I could determine clear direction, and nearly universally with a positive attitude and pleasant demeanor.  But, the readers of my correspondence had reactions I could have never predicted.  What I failed to recognize, is that while I may have been writing a note in a great mood, using light humor, and just thinking to myself how wonderful the sunshine is – my reader may not be reading my note in that same frame of mind.  For the reader, everything that day that could go wrong has gone wrong.  Problems at home having nothing to do with work.  Problems with the car getting to work.  And now, the aggravation of having to read some note, from some guy who is not getting to the point fast enough.  So my email recipient reads from an angry or frustrated point of view, which may have nothing to do with what I am saying, but having everything to do with how they read it, and often with what they read.  What my reader then takes from the note, is whatever they want to take from it.  Hearing what we want to hear, is what is called selective listening.

Most of us have done this at some point or another.  We are listening to someone talk to us about some subject or another, and we just seem to tune out.  We hear a few things, but rarely everything.  And we decide how we may feel about it, based on a number of factors, most of which have little to do with the content being shared.  Attitude plays a major role.  If you talk to me when I am consumed with anger, very few of your words are likely to get through.  It does not matter that something entirely different has made me mad (nothing to do with you), the problem is, when I am mad, I listen carefully a lot less.  The same holds true for being very excited, pleasantly or not.  What I failed to realize in an office setting is that this same phenomenon holds true whether in person to person talking, or person to person writing.  Of course none of try to do this, but we seem to just wind up there from time to time.  And hearing only some of what gets said, can leave out very important things.  Things that could change the meaning of what was said, or what is needed entirely.

Should you try to read the Bible with this kind of distraction, it can get ugly quick.  If you are like me, I have to read the same text over and over and over again in order to get back to some form of what it was truly trying to say.  I have to get “me” out of the way before scripture starts to make sense again.  And if you really want to have the Bible make sense, try reading it through the lens of Jesus Christ.  Look at how Jesus lived, how Jesus loved, how Jesus did so much for the benefit of others, and nothing for Himself.  And through that lens, entire stories, or commandments, start to look a lot different.  It may be impossible to get those pre-existing distractions completely out of the way before you start reading.  Perhaps the best remedy for that is a prayer, and a request for the Holy Spirit to get all that baggage out of the picture, and allow you to see what was written clearer, to get the message Jesus intends for you to get today.  And no, I do not believe it is selective listening to get a message intended for today from scripture, followed by getting a different one tomorrow, I call that growth, and being led.

But when we are determined to get what we want to get out of a conversation, or letter, we will do exactly that.  Even if others do not share our vision, and when they look objectively at the same conversation or letter as we do, they see things entirely differently, probably more truthfully.  But a preconception colors the outcome.  And when the preconceptions are dipped in evil, evil is the only path we have left open to us.  As an example, if I decide I want to kill my enemy for what I believe they have done to me.  I can read scripture and find texts and stories that will seem to support my desired actions.  Eye for an eye.  Eternal consequences.  Killing for God that is either ordered or seems justified.  If you come at this with a preconceived evil intent.  You will find your preconceptions validated (at least in your own mind).  And no amount of objective logic will ever turn you away.  The leaders of God’s own church fell victim to this.  They fell so hard, they wanted to kill God, rather than listen to Him.  They made a choice not to believe, and so believe they did not.

Luke tells us about a case of selective listening with the worst of evil intentions, in a group of religious leaders who should have been the farthest from that phenomenon that is possible to be.  Perhaps like we should be.  People of faith who should know better.  People with the right Bible who read it all the time who should know better.  People who were physically close to God, in the Temple back then, in His flesh back then, and in His Spirit today.  But despite all this, these religious leaders sought evil, and used evil to justify the killing of God, in order to preserve the name of God.  They would stamp out the life of Christ for the blasphemy they were committing.  It was twisted irony.  And it was this group of people to show Jesus we were not worth saving anyway.  Even the best of us, were so easily twisted to be this evil.  Even the folks with the most learning would do this.

Luke starts our case study in chapter 22 of his letter to his friend about what we believe and why, it picks up at the end of the chapter in verse 66 saying … “And as soon as it was day, the elders of the people and the chief priests and the scribes came together, and led him into their council, saying, [verse 67] Art thou the Christ? tell us …  The trauma had started Thursday evening.  They found Jesus coming out of the Garden of Gethsemane late Thursday night, bleeding from His sweat, tired, exhausted, as if He had already been through World War 3.  He had.  He wrestled with His humanity, struggling with whether He could go through with it all.  And worst of all completely isolated from His Father while He carried the weight of all our sins.  It was at His weakest that Judas comes up with the betraying kiss, and soldiers grab Him taking Him away in the night.  It is daybreak now.  The soldiers have been mocking Jesus, and smacking Him around as if He were not already down and out.  Jesus is to be taken before a select council, no sympathizers of Jesus would be invited to this shindig.  This is a kangaroo court with a specific outcome already predetermined in the minds of the participants.

The question they ask Him is not about His answer, it is only about using His words to give them the justification they need to put Him to death.  They are listening to condemn Him, not to converse with Him.  Continuing in verse 67 Jesus answers saying … “… And he said unto them, If I tell you, ye will not believe: [verse 68] And if I also ask you, ye will not answer me, nor let me go.  Jesus points out they are not really looking to know the answer to their question, for it is not a question, it is an accusation.  And Jesus further points out the ultimate destination of this supposed court will end in no other way than His own death, for it is only for that reason they are all assembled.  No one is looking for true justice.  Everyone there is looking for death, His death.  No argument will do it.  Nothing He can say.  They will not let Jesus go, they want Him dead no matter what.  But through all of this Jesus will not refuse to speak truth to them, even if it is the last thing He may ever say to them.

Jesus continues His response in verse 69 saying … “Hereafter shall the Son of man sit on the right hand of the power of God.  This answer is a little tricky.  Jesus has prophesied about where the “Son of Man” will be seen or found.  He gives no timeline for it.  Other versions imply these men will see this upcoming event.  But the statement is a statement of fact.  And to associate Jesus as being the Son of Man, you would have to accept that in order to condemn Him for His answer.  But that would mean you believe Jesus is the Son of Man and therefore the Christ.  Jesus has not said that He was the Son of Man in this answer, only that in the future this is where the Son of Man will be found.  Then there is the dangerous part of this sentence of Jesus.  The right hand of the power of God, implies there will be no power that Jesus is restricted from having.  To condemn Him may bring with it, a war against a power, they have no chance at winning.  It may even be a self-death-sentence they are truly passing.  But to see this, or hear this, they would have to be of mind to listen to His words.  They were only listening for one thing.

Luke continues in verse 70 saying … “Then said they all, Art thou then the Son of God? And he said unto them, Ye say that I am. [verse 71] And they said, What need we any further witness? for we ourselves have heard of his own mouth.  Selective listening.  Jesus says and I am quoting - “you” say that I am.  Talk about poking the bear.  Jesus essentially repeats the idea that they are angry enough to kill Him because deep down they know He really is the Son of God, but they refuse to accept it.  Jesus still did not actually state that He was the Son of God.  As pointed out earlier what good would it have done.  They would not have accepted it or believed it, just because He said it.  So those bent on His death now attempt to use words He said to make that happen.  What difference does it make that He may not have actually given them what they were looking for.  Other versions describe a great deal of frustration during this purported trial as previous witnesses would disagree with each other making it impossible to convict Him.  But Luke does not discuss that.  He zeroes in on how those bent on evil will find a way to do evil, no matter what is said or how it is said.

But I ask once again, are we any different.  We may not have been present at the sham trial to convict our Lord, but do we still read the scriptures with intent, with preconceptions, with a notion to do what we want to do instead of what Jesus would actually ask.  Do we ignore the life and ministry of Jesus, in order to create and promote a judgmentally based religion that makes me feel holy because you are less holy?  That makes me feel better about my sins, because I know your sins are worse?  Do we scorn and avoid forgiveness of each other while still craving the forgiveness of God?  People do sin against us.  It happens.  That is why they need forgiveness, and why we need to offer it.  To choose not to, because we are still mad or hurt about what they did, is to put chains on our own experience instead of embracing the freedom Jesus longs to offer us in the form of forgiveness itself.  What slight, what sin, what hurt, is worth throwing away your own life because of what someone else did to you?  And worse to take up a course of vengeance masquerading as justice, and try to use the Bible to justify what you want to do, is to become a member of that ancient Sanhedrin, a guest of honor at the murder of Jesus.  I would rather instead be uninvited to an event like that, wouldn’t you?  Better to forgive.  Better to read with a mind to be led.  Better to let go any preconception, and allow the Holy Spirit room to show you something new.

 

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