Saturday, February 6, 2021

Renters from Hell ...

Not sure how many of you may share an experience of having rented out a place you own to someone else.  But perhaps you coordinated renting out a room, or sub-letting your place, or just being an AirBnB host of some sort.  Maybe you just allowed someone to come stay at your home for a vacation, or a visit, where no money exchanged hands.  But in any of these cases, there is at minimum an unwritten rule, that your guest, or rather your tenant will preserve your home or place in the same reasonable manner in which they found it.  Most of us don’t ask our tenants or guests to go paint the house while they are staying with us, or clean out the gutters, or perform any other myriad of tasks on the “honey-do” list we have in our minds.  But while we may not expect them to paint the walls, we also do not expect them to allow their cats to pee on the walls either.  Cat pee is particularly pungent and when it gets deep seated in the drywall, it wont ever come out, or at least the smell won’t. 

And how does one allow cats to pee on the walls you may ask?  My answer is I am uncertain.  In my cat owning experience they have only ever peed on the floors when they choose to misbehave, or on the beds when they intend to make a real stink of it.  But my wife and I once rented out our home for several years while we traveled to other states across the country to pursue careers and opportunities we could not get living in central Florida at the time.  We knew the tenant.  We made a bargain we thought was fair.  We would charge only exactly what our mortgage and taxes cost were (no profit), and since we had a 30 year fixed loan on the home, we agreed to never raise that initial rent the entire length of time we rented out our home.  In exchange we expected for our home to be reasonably maintained, or repaired of minor things that come up so we did not have to worry about coordinating these repair events from out of state where our access would be highly limited at best.

Flash forward 7 years from the start of that bargain.  We are back in central Florida again, as all the opportunities elsewhere have come to an end, and the costs to live elsewhere are just too high.  We plan to move back into our home, and ask our tenant to move out for us with plenty of notice.  But what we discover is that a direct move back into the house is just not possible without a nearly full construction job to repair all the accumulated damage that was done while we were away.  We had been true to our part of the bargain, never once raising the under priced rent a dime over the whole 7 years.  But what we found was pet pee on the dry wall, chewed up baseboards, carpets, and flooring.  And most of all a stench so engrained in the walls they would have to be completely replaced to rid the house of the smell.  All the flooring would have to be redone.  And at this point, we might as well, convert the garage into another bedroom for our growing daughter at the time. So began a major home interior renovation we did not intend to carry out.

You might think to yourself, who on earth did you entrust your home to, that would allow it to become this damaged?  You might think, this had to be a stranger most likely, or at least a person you thought was friend who obviously did not value the friendship.  It was neither.  It was a sister of my wife.  A sister who never thanked us for the financial benefit of rental stability, nor apologized from the embarrassment of having allowed our home to become so trashed.  But she was and obviously still is, family.  We have long since forgiven her, whether she seeks it or not.  We hold her no ill will, and have not for many years, it has been now more than 20 years since the forced interior remodel.  But to be clear, a simple paint job was no where near enough to gloss over the damage done to our home back then, damage that our own family allowed to accumulate over time, without shame, without apology, and without even acknowledgement.

This was a financial surprise for us, as owners of the home.  But this experience we had is not isolated to only financial ventures.  It happens in the church as well.  Ask yourself, what happens when the leadership entrusted with God’s church turns the proverbial cats loose to pee on the walls without consequence or regret?  The damage done to our Lord’s church is never so great, as when it is committed by those entrusted to be its stewards, or it’s leaders.  The Catholic church still suffers almost to the point of no repair for how it handled the priesthood being engaged in child molestation without consequence.  I am not Catholic, but my sympathies would always be aligned with victims of that horror, than with the supposed leadership who seemed to systemically permit it.  Cats peeing on walls with owners having no interest in changing anything, not the cats, not the drywall, and not the behavior.  Just looking away and saying have at it.  We will hold our noses.  And it has taken an interior remodel to finally start making things better over there.

But the Catholic church is not the only one to suffer from damage done by the stewards entrusted with the leadership of God’s church.  Long ago, the one True religion, founded by God himself high in a mountain called Sinai with 10 commandments given to Moses, followed by the first 5 books of the Bible, came to a point in its journey, where the spiritual leaders of that church reasoned it was better to kill Jesus, the Son of God, than to relinquish one ounce of doctrinal control over the people.  This crime would be far worse than permitting renegade cats, or even abusing children, it would be the killing of Christ Himself.  And for nothing more than a lack of love, and a desire to stay in power.  True doctrine could never have rationalized anyone’s cold blooded murder, let alone the Son of God.  But this course was set already in the minds of the leadership long before it would be carried out by Jewish and Roman hands.  Could there be any way to prevent it, any way to change hearts and minds, before it was carried forward.  Jesus was here to die, so there was no way to avoid that outcome.  But He did not need to be killed by His own church, that was an option His church alone would choose.  And if you ask me, we still betray Him this way today in our own world, in our own pews, as we choose to seat self in the center of our salvation.

Luke gives us an insight into the attempts of Jesus to foretell and hopefully give pause to the spiritual leaders of his day, from their nefarious purposes.  Luke picks up his account in chapter 20 beginning in verse 9 it says … “Then began he to speak to the people this parable; A certain man planted a vineyard, and let it forth to husbandmen, and went into a far country for a long time. [verse 10] And at the season he sent a servant to the husbandmen, that they should give him of the fruit of the vineyard: but the husbandmen beat him, and sent him away empty.  Several things to note about this story (and it was a parable, not a translation of literal events, even though the parallels would be uncanny) – The vineyard or the church in this case was never “given” to men entrusted with it, it was only ever “loaned” to them, or placed in their care for a specific purpose and a specific time.  These men were not the new owners, they were merely tenants.  At an appointed time (by the real owner I might add), servants were sent to collect the harvest from the church, but instead of finding harvest, they were turned back empty handed.  How often is this remarkably true still today in the church of our Lord.  We have no harvest, for we permit no real change in our hearts to occur.

Luke picks back up in verse 11 saying … “And again he sent another servant: and they beat him also, and entreated him shamefully, and sent him away empty. [verse 12] And again he sent a third: and they wounded him also, and cast him out.  And in this repetition of events, Jesus describes the history of the Jewish faith, where servant and prophet sent to them with messages of love and redemption from God Himself, were turned away again and again, some tortured and beaten or worse for daring to interrupt the power structure with calls back to love again.  These tenants had unknowingly become the tenants from hell.  No one ever sees that coming in themselves.  They are quick to see it in others, but always seem to forget to see it in their own mirrors.  And yet to have a tenant from hell, you need exactly this set of circumstances and willful blindness.

Luke continues in verse 13 saying … “Then said the lord of the vineyard, What shall I do? I will send my beloved son: it may be they will reverence him when they see him. [verse 14] But when the husbandmen saw him, they reasoned among themselves, saying, This is the heir: come, let us kill him, that the inheritance may be ours. [verse 15] So they cast him out of the vineyard, and killed him. What therefore shall the lord of the vineyard do unto them?  And here is where the love of our God is truly on display, even after our rejection of His love, He STILL sends His only Son into our midst to show us what love looks like, knowing full well every other servant that preceded him was killed by men just like these.  And knowing further it would be these same men Jesus was here to save, stewards of His church, that would join their ancestry and choose to kill the very Son of God in a vain attempt to keep control.  What destiny can be left to us when such is our continued choice as leaders entrusted to keep God’s church?

Luke concludes picking back up in verse 16 saying … “He shall come and destroy these husbandmen, and shall give the vineyard to others. And when they heard it, they said, God forbid.  [verse 17] And he beheld them, and said, What is this then that is written, The stone which the builders rejected, the same is become the head of the corner?  [verse 18] Whosoever shall fall upon that stone shall be broken; but on whomsoever it shall fall, it will grind him to powder.  The very men listening to this story, the very same tenants from hell and oblivious to their own condition, hear the parable and utter the phrase “God forbid” or rather, we would wish this never happens to us, the punishment most of all.  But these same men have already concluded in their hearts to kill Jesus who speaks to them now.  They have already rejected Jesus as the Messiah, and much more importantly, as their own personal Messiah.  And so they plan even then to kill Him.

But Jesus offers them scripture to consider to hopefully change their minds, and their planning.  He reminds them of a building analogy where builders rejected a stone, that in spite of this initial rejection, becomes the very cornerstone against which this entire building is constructed upon.  When we fall upon the Rock, we are broken.  Our hearts are broken on the anvil of God’s love, the stone we allow to accumulate within us is shattered by it.  And then we become someone new, someone remade, by the so great love of Jesus Christ.  It is our submission in falling that begins this process, Jesus end to end, sees that it is completed in us.  But when we refuse Jesus, when we refuse salvation, the only destiny left to us, is to be crushed completely by the weight of our own actions and our own guilt, leaving no savior standing in our stead between us and God, only our naked deeds and impure motives unable to stand in His presence without being completed crushed by the weight of what we have done, and if allowed, what we would continue to do.

People are quick to make excuses for bad pet behavior.  They had to have been sick, or scared, or in some other condition that drove them to do something as heinous as pee on the drywall, or do worse on the bed.  After all the pet cannot be evil can they?  But regardless of the motives of simple creatures, the cleaning up after them is choice we make or we don’t.  We could choose to be the completely embarrassed house guest horrified by these kinds of actions, and set about to immediately cleaning them up to reduce the damage as much as possible.  It is no excuse.  It does not undo the damage.  But it tries to minimize the damage to the extent that is possible.  You will note we are still talking about the damage of our pets do, those entrusted to our care through choice and circumstance, those we claim are a part of our family we love deeply.  Or we can ignore the renegade nature of cats bent on marking the world, your home included, and allow that behavior to become so repetitive that it would seep into even the rocks or foundation over time,  Never lifting a finger to fix it.  Thinking we did not do it ourselves, or do it on purpose, so cleaning it up must be somebody else’s responsibility.  Becoming tenants from hell, without a single glance in the mirror.

I can testify what the costs are for errant pet behavior allowed to accumulate over time without a second thought.  Jesus can testify what it looks like when the leaders He entrusts with His church refuse to love, and seek only power over what does not belong to them.  That kind of behavior pulls the crucifixion of Jesus out of purely Roman hands, and places it long before into the hearts, minds, will, and hands of those same entrusted leaders of His church.  Are we there right along side those errant leaders even today?  Do we still reject the notion of being saved by Jesus alone, choosing instead to “help” God in this regard.  Choosing instead to take care of some sin that plagues us, instead of realizing to be truly saved from it, will require Jesus to do all the work of seeing us saved from it, and allowing Him to do so.  For can there ever be any kind of harvest without allowing Jesus to make one in us?  Stop making excuses, and let Him clean you up, and pull the “hell” out of your tenant title as it sits today.

 

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