Friday, January 2, 2009

Define Love ...


 “Do you love me?” she asks.  He replies “Define Love.”  She starts crying.  So often we take for granted what it means to love someone.  We equate love to feeling of chemical attraction between two people and if that hormonally based feeling is present we call it love.  But love itself is so much more than that.  There was a time in our world’s history when people had forgotten what it means to love others.  Evil had done such a good job at creating conditions for selfishness, that even basic principles of love were forgotten.  God had to remind his people again what it means to love.  He did so, in what we call, “The Ten Commandments.”

No, I am not referring to the epic movie starring Charlton Hesston.  I am referring to the list of 10 principles outlined in the book of Exodus 20, then again in Deuteronomy 5, and referenced again by Christ when He says “if you love me, keep my commandments”, and again by John when he foresaw the last servants of Christ who lived in the end of days who had “the testimony of Jesus and kept his Commandments”.  You see these ‘laws’ if you want to call them that are more of a definition of what it means to love, than absolute legal declarations.  Christ Himself referred to this when He said “you keep the letter of the law, but not its spirit”.  The law states “thou shalt not kill”, but to Christ “hate” of another person in your mind and thoughts, was equally guilty of “killing”.  The same was true of “Lust” and “Adultery”.  The thought, even without the consummated action, was enough to break down the laws of love.

So why is this even important?  There is a school of thought among Christians that everything in the Old Testament of the Bible outlines God as a more or less cruel dictator, and was therefore revised by Christ.  That Christ somehow did away with all the Mosaic laws which include the 10 we are discussing today.  But this thinking in only another attempt at undermining the character of God.  After all, if God is some sort of raging dictator in the Old Testament, why is his human personification so gentle and loving in the form of Christ.  We have already discussed the fact that God has nothing at all to do with evil.  So defining God in the Old Testament in a different way than the New Testament is a logical inconsistency that cannot be reconciled with what we know to be true.  God must be the same always.  He does not change.  So if He is love in the New Testament, He must have been love in the Old.

The original 10 Commandments were broken down into the first 4 which gave us a basic definition of how to love God, and the last 6 which gave us the fundamentals for how to love each other.  The first 4 commandments call for us to … 1.) Recognize there is a God, and who He is 2.) Serve only the real God 3.) Do not worship idols or things made with your hands 4.) Remember to rest on Sabbath and think of God.  These basic commandments are the fundamentals for having a relationship with God.  We recognize He exists.  We choose to serve Him alone.  We do not follow after the things we make, or own, but after God.  And finally we recognize that we need time with God to build a relationship with God.  We need to break away from our daily routines of work and self, and focus our attention back on God.  That is why He created the Sabbath in the first place.  In our discussions we have already covered all 4 of these ideas without ever thinking of them as ‘commandments’.  In fact they seem rather self-evident, and relatively ‘easy’ to understand.  The reason these concepts were outlined was for a generation of people who had become so enslaved by evil thinking, they had forgotten them altogether.  The same could be said for folks all throughout history, even in our own day, but ideally not for readers of this blog. J

The second 6 Commandments outline the basics of how to love each other.  5.) Respect your parents 6.) Do not kill / murder 7.) Do not commit adultery 8.) Do not steal 9.) Do not lie and 10.) Do not covet.  These basic tenants have become actual laws in most modern societies as they outline a boundary of respect between peoples.  But the intentions here were for far more than simple boundary definitions, this was intended to begin to show us how to love.  You cannot claim to love someone, yet continue to treat them with disrespect, violence, lust, theft, lies, and jealousy.  It does not work.  More the definition of dysfunction than of love.  But unfortunately in our world today, we think it is OK to show one or more of these traits when involved in a loving relationship with another.  The idea that any of these, are at any time acceptable, is a product of evil design and intent.  To love each other, we must learn to treat each without any of these evil thoughts, intentions, or worse actions.  For more on the topic of how to love each other, there is a wonderful addendum to these principles in 1 Corinthians 13.

So why refer to a definition of how to love as “Commandments?”  Turns out the entire government of Heaven and the Universe is based on the simple principle of loving each other.  More to the point, loving others more than loving yourself.  This is exemplified in the very character and person of Jesus Christ in his life on our earth.  It is also seen in God the Father as He was willing to give up His only Son for us.  God Himself demonstrated the very principles He asks us to discover and embrace.  When Christ was here, He summarized the 10 Commandments into 2 that would also highlight our thoughts and motives – Love God with all your HEART, mind, and soul; and Love man more than you love Yourself.  Note Christ did not say, “forget about Moses, the law, and the prophets”.  He said He was here to “fulfill” the law – NOT – do away with the law. 

When a law is broken, there is a penalty assigned.  When man broke the laws of God by embracing evil we incurred the penalty of the law which like all evil is death.  Christ came to “fulfill” the penalty of the law on our behalf.  We could not be saved if He had not come.  Note that the laws of love existed before the 10 commandments gave them an outline, and will exist long after all have chosen to forsake evil eternally.  The laws, like the love they define, do not ever go away nor does the penalty for breaking them.  What changes is our desire to keep them.  What changes is us.  We learn not to embrace evil ever again.  We learn to trust God and not ever break trust with Him again.  We come into conformity with the law, based on our own decisions to follow a God of love.  We are ever learning what it means to love.  This is the nature of the gift that has been given to us.  God is writing his “laws” in our hearts and our minds through the process of following Him.

So was there anything that passed-away with Christ on the cross?  Yes.  An entire method of worship and sacrifice ended at the cross.  The curtain that divided the Holy place from the Most Holy place in the Jewish temple was torn in half without seen hands when Christ died.  No more were we to bring spotless sheep to kill as a symbol of the coming Messiah.  The symbols had been fulfilled in the actual body of Christ.  No more would there be a symbolic day of atonement.  The real day was here.  No more would we sprinkle blood on the altar.  The most precious of all Blood had been shed.  An entire system of worship designed to look forward to the coming Messiah was ended at the cross.  This entire system went away.  But NOT the definitions of marriage, or justice, or love, or of how to eat healthfully, or of how to avoid evil.  These tenants survived the cross as they are eternal in nature.  We need no symbols in our worship of today (post Messiah).  But we do need more than ever to learn how to love each other.

After all the last command Christ gave us was “to Love each other”.  In doing this the world would know we belong to Him.  Think of it.  The simple act of men and women who love each other would be enough to distinguish us from the rest of the world.  We were not to judge each other.  We were not to condemn each other.  We were simply to love each other.  Loving each other would turn out to be more than enough ‘work’ for most of us.  You mean I gotta love ‘that guy’?  He smells.  He’s dirty.  Worse yet He is Republican, you know how hard it is to love THOSE people …  Yup, we are told to love them all.  More so, we are told to love those who hate us.  Love Osama.  Love those who would kill us.  Love them all, just like God loves them all.  This turns out to be very hard sometimes.  But it is the basis of Heaven’s government.  It is the founding characteristic of God Himself.  And it is an eternal learning lesson we will never tire of learning from.  Love is power.  God is Love.  Defining love is defining God…


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