In the mind of a toddler, what his/her daddy does for a
living defines how secure the toddler feels when confronted with the inherent
dangers of life. Imagine the toddler who
belongs to Hulk Hogan, when faced with a threat, that toddler is going to be
pretty sure Hulk can crush it, no matter what it is. Strength is something a toddler understands pretty
easily (it is what they have a very small amount of, and what dad demonstrates
on a much larger scale). Dad opens
bottles and doors and can lift me way over his head without breaking a
sweat. The same may hold true for mom,
or rather supermom, from a different perspective. The toddler who belongs to supermom, may have
a harder time figuring out just how smart she really is. After all when someone is smarter than you
(at any age) it is impossible to tell just how much smarter, they really
are. But what a toddler can understand
is how no matter what the challenge, supermom is always there and able to meet
it, no matter how hard or even impossible that challenge might seem. From the toddler’s point of view; I am always
fed, clothed, played with, able to sleep, and taken all over the world on any
given day of the week. This toddler is
sure if there is ever a problem, just throw it at mom, she can do
anything. And if dad is able to crush
any threat, and mom able to overcome any threat, I will be having the cushy
life a snowflake like me deserves. Or at
least a life without nearly the fear my fellows all seem to carry. Any wonder why I might think my bloodline is
a ticket to where I will wind up in life?
In the mind of a growing child, dad and mom appear to “belong”
to me. Beyond having my needs provided
for, their love becomes the only thing I crave.
They appear to enjoy giving it, and I can hardly ever get enough of it,
so there is a win-win situation. It is
hard to imagine life like this being any other way. It is hard to think of “my” parents and “my”
family as being any other way than that.
Sharing their time with other priorities (or worse their affection) is
chief on my naughty list. Seems to me
work can handle itself. And groceries
are always right where we need them, if not in our cupboards, then on the shelf
at the market only minutes from where we live.
Time with me should be more important, and most of the time it is. Is it any wonder why my ideas of bloodlines
simply become more entrenched as I grow and they deepen in demonstration? Funny thing is that while I always belonged
to them, as I grow, their fondest wish is that they will always belong to me. An adult child who still calls mom, and talks
to dad, long past when needs arise is precious in the hearts of their parents
more than they can know, until it one day happens to them. And from the parent’s perspective, my
bloodline is to tie the legacy of my past and its love, to the future in ties
that only deepen over time. And “family”
comes to mean something more.
I cannot say myself whether this phenomenon deepens in
harder times, or in times of plenty. As
a child I never knew we experienced harder times, it was just my life. As a parent I did everything I could to
insure the same experience for my own children.
But I also came to know “harder” is a relative description and I am
certain my parents knew them on a scale I hope never to know, and hope they
never see again. And over time the
sacrifice in a bloodline is revealed, going back up the tree farther than the
eye can see. For myself, even though
they split up later, my mom was supermom, and my dad was a Los Angeles
policeman (now retired) who carried a gun and a badge in addition to what
looked to a toddler as infinite strength.
So lest injustice dare to raise its ugly head, the refrain of this
toddler was to look it straight in the eye and warn; that my dad was a
policeman and the perpetrator was going to be taken straight to prison should
it persist. (The entire court system was
lost on toddler me, it was simply, you do something bad, my dad escorts you to
prison in handcuffs, forever, or when I told him it was OK to let you out). This was a weapon I was never in short supply
of wielding. And in my mind, it kept
everyone largely in line when I was young.
A bloodline my children would have to step back one generation to use,
“grandpa” could still carry out this threat, dad worked in “IT” whatever that
was, so proved no use on the playground when things started to get out of hand.
And you can imagine, the heart of any parent takes pride,
when their children at any age acknowledge them, and increase that sense of
belonging (both ways). But where it
comes to our God, we sometimes get too wrapped up in the analogy of “our”
families to understand what “His” family actually looks like. In the time of Luke this was true as
well. Jewish sense of bloodline was more
than just tradition, and perhaps a father-to-son set of skills training that
kept up survival of the clan. Jesus was
a carpenter, because that is what Joseph could teach him to be. Bloodline however was a tracing of ancestors
all the way back to Abraham and the promise of a unique relationship between
forefather and God Himself. Indeed
bloodline had come to supplant personal responsibility or opportunity in the
participation of a relationship with God.
Since dad knew God, I don’t have to.
Since grandpa knew God even better, my bloodline will carry me over the
finish line (even if what I do may not be all that kosher). A bloodline then of more than 2000 years in
the faith becomes something more solid than concrete where it came to salvation,
or the need to embrace the word of God in my particular heart.
Can you imagine then, how much more the brothers and sisters
of Jesus might have felt, knowing who He was and how close they had been with
Him their entire lives? Or the parents
of Jesus? Mary and Joseph literally
spent their entire lives serving, training, and caring for the Son of God. This should have earned them some sort of
special status right? Luke knew it was
time to dispel these ideas, and he wanted to insure his friend Theophilus would
not rely on them either. So picking up
in the eighth chapter in verse 19 the short lesson reads … “Then came to him
his mother and his brethren, and could not come at him for the press. [verse 20]
And it was told him by certain which said, Thy mother and thy brethren stand
without, desiring to see thee. [verse 21] And he answered and said unto them,
My mother and my brethren are these which hear the word of God, and do it.” Yikes!
All that service to Jesus from baby to now, and He seems to cast it
aside as being no less important to Him, than the common stranger who is
willing to sit at His feet, listen, and then embrace the word of God in action.
But then, the “family” of God from the perspective of God,
is every living man or woman ever created by His finger since the dawn of time
to long past its end. The spark of life
still finds its source in our Creator God, who then is our true Father, no
matter who dad was. Each of us is
brother or sister, nothing more, but nothing less. So the blood-relatives of Jesus who thought
they were special, were special, but no more special than those sitting at the
feet of Jesus that day. Bloodline
however would not save any of them. Listening,
accepting, and doing the word of God would.
Doing being rapped up in coming to Jesus for the re-creation we all need,
to be remade in harmony with His Law of Love and His Father, our Father. That distinction defines the difference
between erring child choosing to live in pain, and penitent child who chooses
for Jesus to take them out of their pain, here and now, and for all time. And upon accepting this as nothing more than
a toddler, we finally find the door to the Kingdom of God in the here and now.
Imagine the lack of fear that might bring your toddler mind,
to KNOW beyond all shadow of a doubt, that Jesus is your true Father, no matter
who your dad is/was. Toddlers who have
little fear are comfortable anywhere.
When they get tired, they sleep. When
I was that age, sleep was not a problem for me.
No matter where the locale or conditions. My mother used to tell me that when she and
my dad went to dinner parties with friends in their homes, I would find her
chair, curl up underneath it, and fall asleep no matter what the commotion was
that carried on round about. When I was
a little older, my mother and I lived in Loma Linda California, which even then
was subject to more than a few earthquakes.
Not that they bothered me. I
slept right through all of them.
Earthquakes strong enough to tear up streets and flip refrigerators
upside down, and me sleeping like a baby without a care in the world. This held true when we moved to Kentucky and
went through Tornado’s. For me it was
just another night to sleep through.
Jesus would handle all those problems, and Jesus did. Massive destruction all around, but none of
it seemed to find me or my family. His
love, not my deservedness. But what was
consistent was a total lack of fear in me, even when my mother could not hide
her own nerves.
But perhaps the difference between toddler and adult is that
adult has been educated to know just how dangerous life can be, while toddler
is able to remain blissfully unaware of that danger. Now imagine what it was like for Jesus who
knew His Father is The Father God. Makes
Hulk Hogan and supermom, look like a novice.
Imagine what the protective instinct of Father God must be for His own child,
and then perhaps by extension you can imagine how He feels about you. What is certain is that hurricanes will
blow. The devil has always made sure of
that. But when they blow, where will
your mind be? If what you ponder is the
very real danger you are in, your mind leans to that of adult, educated to
fear. But if despite your hurricane you
are able to be at peace, your mind leans to that of toddler, certain in His
love despite what fury nature or Satan can muster up. It takes trust to function like the toddler. It takes an abandon of the logical, in favor
of the miraculous. And to pull it off,
it takes certainty. For just a show of
words leaves you claiming peace, while the ulcer grows within you from the fear
you try to hide.
Luke continues His lesson in verse 22 saying … “Now it came
to pass on a certain day, that he went into a ship with his disciples: and he
said unto them, Let us go over unto the other side of the lake. And they
launched forth. [verse 23] But as they sailed he fell asleep: and there came
down a storm of wind on the lake; and they were filled with water, and were in
jeopardy.” Experienced fishermen knew
about storms, and microbursts, and this looked to their minds like any
hurricane you will ever face. The boat
was taking on water, and the fury of the storm told them they were about to
die. And so where was Jesus? Jesus was sound asleep with no fear at all, for
He went to sleep KNOWING His Father was in charge of His life or death or
whatever may come. Fear would not make
any of that any different. And frankly
fear was not needed when your Father is that Father. But Peter and the others did not think of the
family of God in this respect. They knew
their own fathers, and none of them could conquer nature. So they finally turned to Jesus when they
figured out their own efforts had left them facing a collective doom.
Luke continues in verse 24 saying … “And they came to him,
and awoke him, saying, Master, master, we perish. Then he arose, and rebuked
the wind and the raging of the water: and they ceased, and there was a calm. [verse
25] And he said unto them, Where is your faith? And they being afraid wondered,
saying one to another, What manner of man is this! for he commandeth even the
winds and water, and they obey him.” The
storm or hurricane or microburst was real.
It needed attention. Jesus simply
calms it, like wiping off a raindrop from your forehead. Then He asks the profound question of His
disciples, where is your faith? The
disciples did not need faith in Jesus to solve this problem, they could have
simply asked the Father of Jesus to handle it.
But they did not believe that Father would hear them, or would do
anything about it. They believed that
Father did not really care about them, or value them as any kind of sons. They were wrong. Jesus was here to prove just how wrong they
were. The God who is our Father does
love us more than any earthly version of a Father ever could. This test was easily solved by asking it of
the God who loves us. Yes, Jesus was in
the boat. But God His Father and our
Father was looking on just as intently from Heaven. That Father permits storms like these to
blow, in order to teach us trust, to teach us to rely upon Him no matter the
outcome. He lets it happen to teach us
to ask for help instead of relying upon ourselves to save ourselves; when it is
in fact impossible to do that for humans.
The disciples were more freaked out about Jesus commanding
nature, and nature listening, than they were about His Father being our Father
as well. Jesus just proved what God had
in mind to do. Why fear? Jesus did not. And Jesus was meant to die for us at the end
of this mission, so it is not as if danger to His life was not real. Jesus simply trusted His Dad with both His
life and His death. After you trust like
that, fear will leave the building. Then
too look at what God did. He fixed
it. You cannot. But for Him, no big deal. So why spend so much effort and fear trying
to fix what you cannot, and instead just trust in that Love to fix what it
obviously wants to fix. If we could
count the number of prayers that WERE answered, we might be ashamed of
ourselves for not remembering them when the next hurricane blows. Add to that number, the number of times our
Father God saved us, when we did not even know we were on death’s pathway. Our very lives are the miracle. Yet one little real danger and we behave as
if this is the first time we pray for safety with a God who has some sort of
spotty record. His record is pure, even
if our accounting or our memory are shabby.
I think it is time for us to let fear leave, and let trust in Dad takes
it place.
And as for bloodlines; ours should be amended to include
Jesus as our Father and Creator in a one to one relationship that works. He allows me to be a toddler. I get to be toddler in return. It is not the bloodline then of my earthly
family that warrants me anything in His Kingdom. But it is my bloodline with Jesus and His
Father God that offers certainty in words like eternal, and joy, and bliss-from-service
I have yet to fully understand. It is
the bloodline of Christ that describes life beyond the pain and death of this
world and my enemy. An end to evil. An end to the evil in me. That is what my bloodline offers, for it was
the very blood of Jesus that flowed to keep eternal hurricanes from ever
touching me again. He took my fate, to
offer me a new one, the one He had in mind.
Let us find ways to teach our children of this bloodline connection, so
that they become toddlers once again, and together we see fear depart from us
forevermore. Our Dad is His Dad.
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